Discover Yourself Through the Enneagram
Beneath our patterns of striving, helping, fixing, or perfecting runs something deeper — the story of how we first learned to relate to others and navigate the world. The Enneagram is a dynamic personality system that helps you to understand who you are, why you think, feel and act the way you do and how greater self‑awareness leads to more authentic and effective ways of being.
It reveals the inner motivations behind your habits — the drivers that shape how you lead, communicate, and respond under pressure. By understanding these patterns, you can recognise both the strengths that serve you and the blind spots that limit you, turning automatic reactions into conscious choices that foster growth, authenticity, and true inner freedom.
What is the Enneagram?
The Enneagram describes nine character or personality ‘types’. Nine distinct yet interconnected ways of seeing and responding to life. Each with distinct habits of feeling, thinking and behaving that rise from a deeper, core motivation. And each holds particular strengths, challenges, and gifts when in balance.
Our type determines what we pay attention to and how we direct our energy.
By understanding your Enneagram type and sub-type, you begin to notice:
- the automatic patterns that keep you stuck,
- what drives your decisions and reactions, and
- the deeper qualities that arise when you relax those defences — presence, courage, compassion, and truth.
Contrary to what many people think, the Enneagram isn’t about being put in a box. It’s about seeing the box you’ve been living in — most probably unconsciously — and skilfully finding your way out.
The Enneagram takes the guesswork out of self-growth. It gives you incredible insight into the nuances of your personality, your relationship tendencies, your leadership and spiritual potential, as well as maps an integrated pathway forwards that optimises your efforts.
And through this work, you deepen in self-awareness as well as empathy for others.
The Enneagram is an ideal tool for leaders, any person on a growth journey and its embodied approach complements a yoga or meditation practice. It allows you to reach and to embody your full potential, and to be a shining light for others.
Why the Enneagram?
Because being human is complex! But it doesn’t have to be a struggle.
In my experience, the Enneagram is the most powerful, multi-dimensional system available today to awaken and evolve – no matter your age, cultural background or level of self-awareness. It delivers profoundly accurate insights and results for anyone committed to self growth, healing, leadership development or wanting to live a more purposeful life.
Without a reliable growth system like the Enneagram to uncover our blindspots, we remain in the ignorance of our ego identity. We stay stuck in our habit patterns and fall short of our best self. We can easily feel disconnected or disempowered. And we get to a point where we realise that our attempts to control life or others, just doesn’t work.
The Narrative Approach
In the Narrative Enneagram tradition, learning happens through lived experience — through stories, sincere reflection, and deep listening. Through somatic (body) enquiry, emotional attunement and energetic sensitivity. Rather than just being “typed” by an online test, you get to explore your patterns holistically through conversation, staying curious about what’s true for you. This approach honours your intelligence, intuition, and complexity.
As a coach trained in the Narrative Enneagram tradition, I hold space for your self-discovery. My role isn’t to tell you who you are, but to guide you to listen more closely to yourself — allowing your Enneagram type to unfold. For you to:
- Clearly see yourself and what drives your personality;
- Notice and overcome unhelpful patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving that keep you stuck;
- Relate to others with greater skill, wisdom and compassion; and
- Experience inner freedom and the true Self.
Begin Your Exploration ~ Work with Me
Curiosity is the starting point. You might like to take the Narrative Enneagram Online Test.
Then to consolidate your learning and to dive deeper, you can engage me to:
- Book an Enneagram Typing Session
- Join an upcoming Enneagram workshop or group series
- Engage in one-on-one Enneagram Coaching or Couples Coaching Program
The Enneagram is not about fixing yourself. It’s about remembering who you truly are — before the old stories took hold.
